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Tuesday, November 26, 2013

[excerpt] housewife: bad or good decision?

this story is so like mine. i wish, he can read this T_________T
may 1 kaming anak, pero may mga nagawa naman (hindi ko masabing marami dahil ibang level ito ng sacrifice or something =.=) ako para sa anak namin siguro naman, hindi mali ang desisyon kong maging housewife/hands-on mom.
ngayong lumalaki na anak namin, nagkaka-idea na sya kung pano ang may kapatid.. na yun ang wala (pa) sya. gustuhin ko mang bigyan sya, mukhang hindi na kakayanin ng asawa ko financially. ayaw naman nya kasing mag-abroad.. ewan ko ba?

ayaw kong pag-usapan namin ito dahil in the end it'll boils down to me.. ako na naman ang may kasalanan. i admit, before parang ayaw ko ng bigyan ng kapatid ang anak namin pero ngayon.. mukhang gusto nya talaga at para hindi naman sya malungkot pagtanda nya di ba.

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Monday, September 13, 2010

Difference between Westerners and Asians

(1) Opinion
Westerners: Talk to the point
Asians: Talk around the circle, especially if opinions are different


(2) Way of Life
Westerners: individualism, think of himself or herself.
Asians: enjoy gathering with family and friends, solving their problems, and know each other's business.

(3) Punctuality
Westerners: on time.
Asians: in time.

(4) Contacts
Westerners: Contact to related person only.
Asians: Contact everyone everywhere, business very successful.

(5) Anger
Westerners: Show that I am angry.
Asians: I am angry, but still smiling... (Beware!)

(6) Queue when Waiting
Westerners: Queuing in an orderly manner..
Asians: Queuing?! What's that?

(7) Sundays on the Road
Westerners: Enjoy weekend relaxing peacefully.
Asians: Enjoy weekend in crowded places, like going to the mall.

(8) Party
Westerners: Only gather with their own group.
Asians: All focus on the one activity that is hosted by the CEO.

(9) In the restaurant
Westerners: Talk softly and gently in the restaurant.
Asians: Talk and laugh loudly like they own the restaurant.

(10) Travelling
Westerners: Love sightseeing and enjoy the scenery.
Asians: Taking picture is the most important; scenery is just for the background.

(11) Handling of Problems
Westerners: Take any steps to solve the problems.
Asians: Try to avoid conflicts, and if can, don't leave any trail.

(12) Three meals a day
Westerners: Good meal for once a day is sufficed.
Asians: At least 3 good meals a day.

(13) Transportation
Westerners: Before drove cars, now cycling for environmental protection.
Asians: Before no money and rode a bike, now got money and drive a car

(14) Elderly in day-to-day life
Westerners: When old, there is snoopy for companionship.
Asians: When old, guarantee will not be lonely, as long as willing to babysit grandkids.

(15) Moods and Weather
Westerners: The logic is: rain is pain.
Asians: More rain, more prosperity

(16) The Boss
Westerners: The boss is part of the team.
Asians: The boss is a fierce god.

(17) What's Trendy
Westerners: Eat healthy Asian cuisine.
Asians: Eat expensive Western cuisine.

(18) The Child
Westerners: The kid is going to be independent and make his/her own living.
Asians: Slog whole life for the kids, the centre of your life.

*excerpt

Monday, March 1, 2010

yaya jokes

Laughter is the best medicine.

1. Yaya buys food at McDo.
Crew: "Dito niyo na po ba kakainin?"
Yaya: "Puwede sa table?"

2. Kid: "Yaya look, boats!"
Yaya: "Dows are not boats, dey're yachts."
Kid: "Yaya, spell yachts?"
Yaya: "Yor rayt, dey are boats."

3. Woman carrying sick baby enters doctor's office.
Doc: "Bottlefed?"
Woman: " Brea - stfed po."
(Doctors squeezes woman's breasts repeatedly)
Doc: "Ayan ang problema, wala kang gatas, eh."
Woman: "Yaya lang po ako doc! Yaya!"

4. The eggs that yaya bought turned out to be rotten.
She stormed back to the grocery and told the vendor:
"Manong, ang baho ng itlog niyo!"

5. My mom asked our yaya to buy Inquirer and Star.
Our yaya came back and said: "Ma'am, wala pong Inquirer
kaya bumili nalang po ako ng dalawang Star!"

6. Yaya: "Huhuhu..."
Ate: "O, bakit ka umiiyak?"
Yaya: "Kasi ate ang dami kong pimples!"
Ate: "Eh bakit ka ba tinitighiyawat?"
Yaya: "Kasi po di ako makatulog sa gabi."
Ate: "O, bakit ka di makatulog?"
Yaya: "Kasi po may pinoproblema ako..."
Ate: "Ano naman ang pinoproblema mo?"
Yaya: "Kasi ate ang dami kong pimples!"

7. (Earlier) Mom: "Yaya, lagay mo yung pesto sa ref!"
(Later) Son: "Yaya, nakita mo PS2 ko?"
Yaya: "Nasa ref, pinalagay ng mama mo!"

8. Just now my maid burned a hole in my uniform.
I angrily asked her, "Paano mo naman nasunog to?"
She answered: "Secret!"

9. After watching a movie, our yaya blurted out :
"Ang pangit naman, happy ending!"

10. Sir: "Yaya, gawa mo ko ng kape. Yung decaf ha!"
Yaya: "Siyempre naman, alangan namang de-baso!"

11. Mom: "Yaya, magluto ka na pag-alis ko ha!"
Yaya: "Ano po lulutuin ko?"
Mom: "It's up to you."
(During dinner) Mom: "Yaya, bakit ketsup at tuyo ang ulam?"
Yaya: "Diba nung tinanong ko kayo kung anong lulutuin ko,
sabi niyo, 'kitsup tuyo'!"

12. Our neighbor's yaya: "Junjun, chew your mouth!"

13. Our yaya sa sari-sari store: "Miss isang Coke in can
at isang Sprite na Coke in can..."

14. SIR: "Inday, si sir mo to, nabangga kotse ko & I need cash!"
INDAY: "Aru, dugo-dugo gang ka no?"
SIR: "Gaga! Si sir mo talaga to!"
INDAY: "Gago ka rin! Si sir ang tawag sa kin...kapkeyk. .."

15. I once asked my yaya where the Netherlands is located.
She answered: "Diba dun nakatira si Peter Pan?"

16. "O yaya, bakit ka umiiyak?"
Yaya: "Ati, sabi kasi ng duktor, tatanggalan ako ng butlig!"
Ate: "Eh yun lang pala eh! Bakit ka umiiyak?"
Yaya: "Buti kung one lig lang, eh kung butlig, wala na kong ligs!"

17. We saw our yaya staring intently at the orange juice bottle.
Sabi namin: "Yaya, anong ginagawa mo?"
Yaya: "Shhh! Nakalagay sa bote, 'concentrate' ..."

18. Neighbor's yaya telling her ward to climb down the stairs:
"Down to earth! Down to earth!"

19. My mom was going to buy our yaya a transistor radio.
Before my mom left the house, our yaya said,
"Ma'am, ang kunin niyo yung Ilokano ang salita ha!"

20. We paid for the tuition fee of our yaya's son.
So one day I was reviewing him: "The Earth is the 3rd planet from the
sun.

Ano ang katabi ng Mercury?" His mom, our yaya, answered:
"Parang Watson's yata..."

21. Sir: "Yaya, natanggal mo yung mantsa sa barong ko?"
Yaya: "Opo! Tanggal na tanggal!"
Sir: "Good! Anong pinang-tanggal mo?"
Yaya: "Gunting, kuya! Gunting!"

22. Yaya to tricycle driver: "Magkano sa City Hall?"
Driver: "Ikaw lang?" Yaya: "Ay bakit, hindi ka sasama?"

23. (Si Kuya pumasok sa kuwarto ni Yaya)
Kuya: "Yaya..."
Yaya: "Koya, wag po! Wag Pooooo!"
Kuya: "Gaga! Uutusan lang kita!"
Yaya: "Si Koya naman...nagsa- suggest lang..."

24. Kid: "Yaya, spell orange?"
Yaya: "Depende. Yung kulay o yung prutas?"

25. Midget Yaya who was newly hired:
"Suwerte po kayo, ako ang napili niyo.
At least kung maibagsak ko si baby, mababa lang!"

26. Yaya to my brother: "Nag tothbrush ka na ng ipin?"
Bro: "Siyempre, alangan namang mag toothbrush ako ng kilikili!"

27. (after being scolded for breaking her promises):
"Ma'am, hindi na po ako mangangako ulit...promise!"

28. AMO: "Bakit namatay ang aso?"
MAID: "Pinaliguan ko po ng laundry soap."
AMO: "Nakamamatay ba yun?"
MAID: "Ewan ko nga po eh, pag-off ko ng washing machine patay na."

29. Yaya picking up the phone saying: " Hilo ?"
We noticed that she was holding the handset ng baligtad.
We told her, "Yaya, baliktad!"
Then Yaya said: "Lohi?"

30. Amo: Yaya use COOLING PLACE in a sentence.
Yaya: Sir! viry easy! iksample nagring yung phone,
(ring, ring, ring,) Yaya answered, " HILO , WHO'S COOLING PLACE?"

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

The Myth of the Stay-at-Home Mom

Being a "stay-at-home mom" is by no means related to the term "non-working," in any way, shape, or form! In fact, mothers who choose to stay home have one of the most demanding and important jobs in today's society. This is a career that requires seven, on-call 24 hour shifts, each and every week, 52 weeks a year.

The world's stereotypical image of the "stay-at-home mom" is a woman sitting on her sofa, eating bonbons and watching soap operas all day. The real truth is that the job of raising children never ends. It's not a job where you get to leave work at the office, or clock out after an 8-hour shift. There are always things needing attention, such as: meals that need preparing or cleaning up from, mountains of laundry to wash, dry, and put away, a home that needs constant cleaning, doctor visits, soccer practice, and grocery shopping - just to name a few.

Full-time mothers get the first call when volunteers are needed for any school function, field-trip or fundraiser. If you choose to be a full-time mom, you probably won't be home very much. You will find yourself organizing trips, running bake-sales and driving children whose parents are stuck at work to museums. You put in all the work of "working parents" without the paychecks or the breaks.

The rewards of participating in, and the impact on your children's learning, development, and values is priceless. Raising children as a full-time mom is a career that requires a multitude of skills, including patience, wisdom, and thinking quickly on your feet. All are key elements of successful parenting. Another "perk" to staying at home to raise your children is that your parenting guilt level is greatly reduced. You'll never have to question the quality of your child's care, or if you are spending enough "quality" time with them.

Do you get sick days or vacation time? For most full-time, those benefits are not an option, unless you physically cannot get out of bed or are fortunate enough to have hired help or help from a loving spouse, relative, or close friend. Your work needs to be accomplished so the household doesn't fall apart. Even when you're sick, it's business as usual.

If you are or are considering being a full-time mom, give yourself a pat on the back and a whole lot of credit. When you calculate just how much it would cost your family to hire someone to do all that, you do, you realize just how valuable choosing to be a stay-at-home mom can be to your family!

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Saturday, March 7, 2009

Ang katotohanan sa likod ng OFW

Hindi mayaman ang OFW - We have this notion na ‘pag OFW o nasa abroad ay mayaman na. Hindi totoo yun. A regular OFW might earn from P50K-P300K per month depende sa lokasyon. Yung mga taga-Saudi or US siguro ay mas malaki ang sweldo, but to say that they're rich is a fallacy (amen!).

Malaki ang pangangailangan kaya karamihan ay nag-a-abroad. Maraming bunganga ang kailangang pakainin kaya umaalis ang mga pipol sa Philippines . Madalas, 3/4 o kalahati ng sweldo ay napupunta sa tuition ng anak at gastusin ng pamilya.

Mahirap maging OFW – Kailangan magtipid hangga't kaya. Oo, masarap ang pagkain sa abroad pero madalas na paksiw o adobo at itlog lang tinitira para makaipon. Pagdating ng kinsenas o katapusan, ang unang tinitingnan eh ang conversion ng peso sa dollar o rial o euro. Mas okay na magtiis sa konti kaysa gutumin ang pamilya. Kapag umuuwi, kailangan may baon kahit konti kasi maraming kamag-anak ang sumusundo sa airport o naghihintay sa probinsya. Alam mo naman ‘pag Pinoy, yung tsismis na OFW ka eh surely attracts a lot of kin.

Kapag hindi mo nabigyan ng pasalubong eh magtatampo na yun at sisiraan ka na. Well, hindi naman lahat pero I'm sure sa mga OFW dito eh may mga pangyayaring ganun. Magtatrabaho ka sa bansang iba ang tingin sa mga Pinoy. Malamang marami ang naka-experience ng gulang o discrimination to their various workplaces. Sige lang, tiis lang, iniiyak na lang kasi kawawa naman pamilya 'pag umuwi.

Besides, wala ka naman talagang maasahang trabaho sa Philippines ngayon. Mahal ang bigas, ang gatas, ang sardinas, ang upa sa apartment. Tiis lang kahit maraming kupal sa trabaho, kahit may sakit at walang nag-aalaga, kahit hindi masarap ang tsibog, kahit pangit ang working conditions, kahit delikado, kahit mahirap. Kapag nakapadala ka na, okay na, tawag lang, "hello! kumusta na kayo?".

Hindi bato ang OFW - Tao rin ang OFW, hindi money o cash machine. Napapagod rin, nalulungkot (madalas), nagkakasakit, nag-iisip at nagugutom. Kailangan din ang suporta, kundi man physically, emotionally o spiritually man lang.

Tumatanda rin ang OFW - Sa mga nakausap at nakita ko, marami ang panot at kalbo na. Most of them have signs and symptoms of hypertension, coronary artery disease and arthritis. Yet, they continue to work thinking about the family they left behind. Marami ang nasa abroad, 20-30 years na, pero wala pa ring ipon. Kahit anong pakahirap, sablay pa rin. Masakit pa kung olats rin ang sinusuportahang pamilya – ang anak adik o nabuntis; ang asawa may kabit. Naalala ko tuloy ang sikat na kanta dati, “NAPAKASAKIT KUYA EDDIE!"

Bayani ang OFW – Totoo yun! Ngayon ko lang na na-realize na bayani ang OFW sa maraming bagay. Hindi bayani na tulad ni Nora Aunor o Flor Contemplacion. Bayani in the truest sense of the word. Hindi katulad ni Rizal o Bonifacio. Mas higit pa dun, mas maraming giyera at gulo ang pinapasok ng OFW para lang mabuhay. Mas maraming pulitika ang kailangang suungin para lang tumagal sa trabaho lalo na't kupal ang mga kasama sa trabaho. Mas mahaba ang pasensya kaysa sa mga ordinaryong kongresista o senador sa Philippines dahil sa takot na mawalan ng sweldo.

Matindi ang OFW – Matindi ang pinoy. Matindi pa sa daga, o cockroaches which survived the cataclysmic evolution. Maraming sakripisyo pero walang makitang tangible solutions or consequences.

Malas ng OFW, swerte ng pulitiko – Hindi umuupo ang OFW para magbigay ng autograph o interbyuhin ng media (unless nakidnap!). Madalas nasa sidelines lang ang OFW. Kapag umaalis, malungkot and on the verge of tears. Kapag dumadating, swerte ‘pag may sundo( madalas meron). Kapag naubos na ang ipon, wala ng kamag-anak.

Sana sikat ang OFW para may boses sa Kamara. Ang swerte ng mga politiko nakaupo sila at ginagastusan ng pera ng Filipino. Hindi nga sila naiinitan o napapaso ng langis, o napagagalitan ng amo, o kumakain ng paksiw para makatipid, o nakatira sa compound with conditions less than favorable, o nakikisama sa ibang lahi para mabuhay. Ang swerte, sobrang swerte nila!

Matatag ang OFW – Matatag ang OFW, mas matatag pa sa sundalo o kung ano pang grupo na alam nyo. Magaling sa reverse psychology, negotiations at counter-attacks. Tatagal ba ang OFW? Tatagal pa kasi hindi pa natin alam kailan magbabago ang Philippines, kailan nga kaya? o may tsansa pa ba?

Masarap isipin na kasama mo ang pamilya mo araw-araw. Nakikita mo mga anak mong lumalaki at naaalagaan ng maayos. Masarap kumain ng sitaw, ng bagoong, lechon, inihaw na isda, taba ng talangka. Masarap manood ng pelikulang Pinoy, luma man o bago. Iba pa rin ang pakiramdam kung kilala mo ang kapitbahay mo. Iba pa rin sa Philippines, iba pa rin kapag Pinoy ang kasama mo (except ‘pag kupal at utak-talangka) , iba pa rin ‘pag nagkukwento ka at naiintindihan ng iba ang sinasabi mo. Iba pa rin ang tunog ng "mahal kita!", "day, ginahigugma tika." “Mingaw na ko nimo ba, kalagot!", " Inday, diin ka na subong haw? ganahan guid ko simo ba". Iba pa rin talaga.

Sige lang, tiis lang, saan ba’t darating din ang pag-asa.

Monday, February 16, 2009

Help! I'm addicted to Facebook!

Pretty much everyone I know has a Facebook account. I use it for emailing, messaging, sharing pictures, and more. That sounds pretty reasonable, right? Well, Facebook has a way of creeping from something useful into a major contributor to carpal tunnel, burning eyes, procrastination, and mindless clicking.

Haven't seen people you went to high school with in ten years or more? With Facebook it's no problem. Since you can view everyone's friend list as soon as you connect with one person, the floodgates open, and you're back in your hometown, for better or worse.

Want to see what people are up to but have no interest in really talking to them? No problem with Facebook. If someone has an open profile you can click around on their page like you are their BFF, seeing all their pictures, friends' comments, and status updates. You can locate exactly where someone is and how they're feeling today in 3 minutes or less.

Got something to promote? It's no problem with Facebook. Set your favorite site as your status, create a link to your project and your friends will surely check it out. Got a new business? Create a Facebook group and your friends can join and keep in contact with all the updates of your company.

Ok, obviously I am a Facebook user. I enjoy seeing a picture of my friend when I send them a message. I am a fan of the status update. I even like notifications and am only mildly concerned when I am friend-requested by a total stranger. I enjoy clicking through pictures of my long lost friends' houses in the suburbs and seeing their kids covered in spaghetti. It's sort of exotic to a country girl transplant like me.

So here is the problem, well, my problem. And I am assuming I'm not alone on this one. I'm on Facebook all the time! I go to the site not even conscious that I am going to it. I turned on my computer this morning with the intention of opening Word first thing, and where did I find myself? You guessed it. Facebook. I am addicted! Admitting is the first step to recovery (bankers take note). Sign me up for Facebook rehab.

Pope Benedict XVI has warned us about getting in a pickle with Facebook. Now I'm not one to go around quoting any kind of Church, especially if you knew the extent of my Catholic grade school story, but this was sort of interesting. The Associated Press brought us his thoughts about how Facebook (and MySpace, a whole other topic mostly about kids and bands) can foster friendships and understanding, but warns that they also can isolate people and marginalize others. Benedict welcomes as a "gift" new technologies such as social networking sites, saying they respond to the "fundamental desire" of people to communicate. But he warns that "obsessive" virtual socializing can isolate people from real interaction and deepen the digital divide by excluding those already on the sidelines. He urges producers to ensure that the content respects human dignity, and of course the "goodness and intimacy of human sexuality."

What about burning eyes, carpal tunnel, hunched shoulders, stiff hips, and monkey mind? Those issues are more interesting to me as a health, yoga, and psychology geek.

I would friend-request the Pope. What would his status updates be? "Slipping into Prada loafers getting ready for mass."

So here I am, busted by the Pope! On one hand, he's got a point. Cyber-bullying is not a joke. The horrific suicide of 13-year-old Megan Meier from Missouri in October of 2006 was the direct result of her former friend's mom taunting her through MySpace. Being a teenager is hard enough. I can't even imagine what kids go through now. There are so many new ways to torture each other. I know a few teens in NY that have problems with teasing each on Facebook too. It's a mess.

I'm sure adults have had problems with taunting and other social blunders on Facebook too, but the majority of problems adults face is just plain over-use. Let me reference my "25 random things." If you're a Facebook user, you are well aware of the "25 random things" that have been going around in the last few months. Maybe you've written yours. Or, maybe you think you won't get pulled in. Good luck.

I should be writing at this moment. July 1st deadline will be here soon. FB is one big distraction really, but I do firmly believe in its usefulness. And its ability to deliver BlockBuster-esque horror, comedic, and dramatic episodes in the disconnected yet intimate way only the modern web experience can.

Correct me if I am alone on this one, but the reality of our lives displayed on Facebook splattered with debauchery is a big part of the fun!

I've come up with some warning signs here. This may be the start of developing a support group for Facebook addicts. The group will be listed on Facebook, where you can become a fan of the group, add pictures, look at pictures of other cute people who are in the group, and write on the wall.

10 warning signs that you may be addicted to Facebook

1. Facebook is your home page.

2. You update your status more than twice a day.

3. You have over 500 "friends" half of whom you've never actually met.

4. As soon as you step away from your computer you're on FB on your phone.

5. You are a FB stalker. You qualify as a FB stalker if you

a) click on someone's profile more than once a day even if they haven't messaged or tagged you in a photo.

b) have dragged and dropped more than 3 FB photos (not from your own profile)

c) actually go to a place mentioned on someone's page in hopes of seeing them in real life...creepy!

6. You change your profile picture more than a 12-year=old girl.

7. You have checked your FB page while reading this article.

8. You clean up your "wall" so it looks like you spend less time on FB.

9. You are a member of more than 10 groups and respond to every event invitation "attending" even if you have no intention of going.

10. You change your relationship status just to mess with people.

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Wednesday, August 13, 2008

coffee and your tummy

Is coffee bad for your health?

For many years, coffee has been blamed for a series of medical problems from the amusing line "it will stop you from growing" to the less amusing worries that it might start heart disease and cancer. Despite all this, recent studies have shown that coffee isn’t as unhealthy as it was initially thought. So what’s the final answer? Is drinking coffee good or is it bad for your health? The best answer is that: it doesn’t seem to harm you and it might actually help you.

A recent study from May 2006 (128000 participants) has shown that there is no high risk for the appearance of cardiovascular diseases for filtered coffee consumers. The results of this study show that the risk of setting off such diseases is not influenced by the quantity of consumed filtered coffee.

In March 2006, 4000 coffee drinkers participated in a study showing the fact that two or more coffee cups per day can lead to high risk of setting off a heart disease. It only happens in the cases of persons suffering from a specific genetic mutation that slows down the body’s assimilation process when it comes to coffee.

There are two sides of the debate yet, considering the large number of participants in the first study we mentioned here (plus numerous other studies), it is logical that we come to the conclusion that this liquid causes very little or no harm to the persons that love to drink it.

However, this affirmation does not imply that you would exaggerate when it comes to drinking coffee. Even if large quantities of the stuff do not harm you, there are also a variety of other drinks such as milk or juice that contain certain nutrients that coffee does not. We should not exaggerate in any situation.

When it comes to other advantages that coffee can bring to your general state of health, there are some scientifically facts claiming that constant coffee consumption protects the body against type 2 diabetes and colon cancer.

There are no exact reasons why coffee has anything to say when it comes to that certain type of diabetes, but doctors have come up with a series of plausible explanations:

Coffee contains antioxidants that control the destruction of a cell that contributes to the evolution of the disease. In addition, it is a source of clorogenyc acid-in the case of experiments conducted on animals, it was proven that this reduces glucose concentrations.

Caffeine, maybe the most famous ingredient of coffee, doesn’t seem to be linked in any way to this fact. Studies that have analyzed decaffeinated coffee have shown that this prevents the disease in the same way as coffee containing caffeine does.

Large quantities of coffee seem to contribute to the prevention of diabetes – researches have discovered that people who drink four up to six cups of coffee per day have 28% lower risk in getting the disease compared to people who drink 2 or less cups per day. Studies show that people who drink over six cups per day have a lower 35% of getting the disease.

Though protection against these affections as type2 diabetes and cancel to the colon is more evident due to the consumption to fruit, vegetables and certain cereals then it is due to drinking coffee. Thus don’t be afraid to enjoy your cup daily, but keep in mind that your diet must contain a large variety of food and drinks.

There are also other advantages that coffee has on your general health state .The blacker the coffe, the better.That`s why researchers recommend an espresso over regular coffee. Coffee contains tannin and antioxidants that have benefit effects on the heart and arteries.

Also coffee can be held responsible for the disappearance of headaches and can bring advantages to the liver’s activities –it can prevent cirrhoses and stones. Caffeine can reduce asthmatic attacks, improving blood flow through the heart.

Nevertheless, drinking coffee is not recommended to everyone. Drinking the world’s most popular drug in large quantities can increase anxiety, determining shaking of hands and fast cardiac rhythm. Pregnant women, patients with heart disease and those who suffer from ulcer are advised to avoid drinking coffee.

There are numerous studies and their conclusions even more so. With all this, scientists recommend that one should not drink more than 3 maximum 4 cups of coffee per day.


By Claudia Miclaus
Published: 4/4/2007
soure: buzzle.com

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BUT WHEN YOU HAVE ULCER...

Change your lifestyle habits. Stop taking those food that can cause you discomfort, for instance coffee and spicy foods. Coffee may help to keep you awake during work but drinking 4 to 5 cups a day is harmful to your stomach. If it is hard to quit, try gradually reducing your use or consumption of such things until they are easier to cut out of your life entirely. Check with a nutrition specialist or your doctor for recommendations about the foods to avoid and those you can eat to help control this condition. In addition, start eating several small meals each day, as opposed to eating two or three large meals. Smaller meals translate to better control of acid buildup at each meal and therefore, more frequent ulcer relief as most ulcer pain subsides for a few hours following a meal.

source: generalhealthinformation.com

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Dyspepsia sometimes leads to ulcer.. minimize coffee if you have dyspepsia


INTRODUCTION — Dyspepsia is a recurrent or persistent pain or discomfort that is primarily located in the upper abdomen. Approximately 25 percent of people in the United States and other western countries experience dyspepsia.

Dyspepsia can develop as a result of various underlying conditions. However, the most common type of dyspepsia is "functional" (or "non-ulcer") dyspepsia. This refers to dyspepsia that occurs without an identifiable cause.

This topic provides an overview of functional dyspepsia and strategies for diagnosis and treatment. For information about chronic abdominal pain in children and adolescents, see "Patient information: Chronic abdominal pain in children and adolescents".

SYMPTOMS — People with dyspepsia can have one or more symptoms, including:

  • Indigestion
  • Discomfort or pain in the abdominal area
  • Bloating
  • An early sense of fullness with meals (early satiety)

Some patients with dyspepsia also experience nausea, vomiting, a lack of appetite, weight loss, or other symptoms and findings.

Definitions — The definition of dyspepsia is as follows [1] :

  • Recurrent or persistent abdominal pain or abdominal discomfort centered in the upper abdomen.
  • The "discomfort" is an uncomfortable feeling but does not reach the level of pain.
  • The discomfort is mainly concentrated in the upper abdomen, although a person may also have pain in other areas.

Types of dyspepsia — There are two major categories of dyspepsia:

  • "Functional" dyspepsia refers to the dyspepsia that occurs with no obvious abnormality in the digestive tract (such as an ulcer).
  • "Organic" or "non-functional" dyspepsia refers to conditions that have a visible abnormality in the digestive tract.

CAUSES — It is not clear what causes the signs and symptoms of functional dyspepsia. However, researchers have focused on several factors that may be involved.

Motor or nerve coordination — Normally, the process of digesting food involves a complex series of events that requires coordination of the nerves and muscles of the digestive tract. Abnormalities in this system may lead to delayed emptying of the stomach contents into the upper region of the small intestine, resulting in nausea and vomiting, an early sense of fullness with eating, and bloating. Delayed gastric emptying is found in approximately 30 percent of people with dyspepsia. However, many people with delayed gastric emptying have no symptoms of dyspepsia.

About 40 percent of people with dyspepsia have impaired relaxation (also called accommodation) of the upper region of the stomach after meals. This can cause an early sensation of fullness.

Visceral sensitivity — Enhanced visceral sensitivity is an increased sensitivity to pain, or a lower threshold for pain, that occurs when normal stretching or enlargement of the stomach occurs. Studies have consistently shown that people with functional dyspepsia often have visceral hypersensitivity.

Helicobacter pylori infection — Helicobacter pylori (H. pylori) is a bacterial infection of the stomach that can lead to inflammation (gastritis) or ulcers. There may be a relationship between infection with H. pylori and functional dyspepsia, although a clear association has not been established. (See "Patient information: Helicobacter pylori infection and treatment").

Psychological and social (psychosocial) factors — People with functional dyspepsia may be more likely to have certain mood problems, such as anxiety or depression. This is not to say that a person's pain is "in their head" or "made up", although treating the underlying depression or anxiety may improve a person's symptoms of abdominal discomfort.

DIAGNOSIS — There are a number of reasons why a person can develop symptoms of dyspepsia. Organic (non-functional) dyspepsia can cause symptoms that are similar to those of functional dyspepsia, or the symptoms may be slightly different. A healthcare provider will perform a medical history and physical examination to narrow the possible list of causes, with special attention to the following:

  • Is the pain "gnawing" or worsened by hunger?
  • Is the pain worsened by certain movements or pressure on certain areas of the abdomen?
  • Do you take medications for pain, such as aspirin, ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin) or naproxen (Aleve)? Do you have a history of ulcers?
  • Do you have heartburn in addition to upper abdominal discomfort?
  • Do you have intense pain in the upper right or middle of the abdomen? Does the pain extend to the back or between the shoulder blades? Does this happen periodically, along with vomiting, sweating, or feeling restless?
  • Have there been changes in your bowel habits (eg, constipation or diarrhea)?
  • Have you recently unintentionally lost weight, vomited repeatedly, or had difficulty swallowing?

Testing recommendations — The best way to diagnose functional dyspepsia is not clear. The American Gastroenterological Association suggests the following:

  • People who are older than 55 or with serious symptoms, such as repeated vomiting, weight loss, difficulty swallowing, or a low blood count, should have an upper endoscopy procedure. (See "Patient information: Upper endoscopy").

If symptoms fail to improve within four to eight weeks or if more serious symptoms develop, further testing, including upper endoscopy, is usually recommended. Other diagnostic tests may be recommended in selected cases.

TREATMENT

Understanding the condition — Being diagnosed with functional dyspepsia may be a relief to some people and a frustration to others. It is important to understand that symptoms are not imaginary. One or more treatments may be recommended, often in combination; having realistic expectations of the benefits of treatment may help to reduce frustration. If there are mood problems, such as anxiety or depression, an evaluation with a mental health specialist (eg, social worker, psychologist, counselor) may be recommended.

Lifestyle changes — Some people benefit from avoiding fatty foods (which can slow the emptying of the stomach), and eating small frequent meals. Foods that aggravate symptoms should be avoided, if possible, although eliminating entire food groups is not recommended. If there are questions about which foods should be avoided, this should be discussed with a healthcare provider and/or dietician.

Medications — Certain medications may help to reduce the symptoms of functional dyspepsia.

H. pylori therapy — Treatment of H. pylori is recommended if an ulcer is diagnosed. (See "Patient information: Helicobacter pylori infection and treatment").

This treatment may be considered for people who have H. pylori, but who are not known to have an ulcer. However, the benefit of treating H. pylori in this situation is unclear. At best, a small proportion of people with functional dyspepsia improve following treatment of H. pylori.

Acid reducing medications — Some people benefit from treatment with medications that inhibit or reduce the production of stomach acid (eg, H2 blockers such as Zantac®, Axid®, or Pepcid® or proton pump inhibitors such as Prilosec®, Nexium®, Prevacid® AcipHex®, or Protonix®).

Visceral analgesics — As mentioned previously, some people with dyspepsia are sensitive to enlargement (distension) of the stomach. Medications that relieve visceral pain are being studied, but are not yet available.

Pain medications — Low doses of an antidepressant medication may be recommended to reduce pain, even if the patient is not depressed. The dose of TCAs is typically much lower than that used for treating depression. It is believed that these drugs reduce pain perception when used in low doses, but the exact mechanism of their benefit is unknown.

TCAs commonly used for pain management include amitriptyline, desipramine, and nortriptyline. In the beginning, many people who take TCAs experience fatigue; this is not always an undesirable side effect since it can help improve sleep when TCAs are taken in the evening. TCAs are generally started in low doses and increased gradually. Their full effect may not be seen for weeks to months.

Narcotic pain medications, such as codeine, hydrocodone, or oxycodone, are not usually recommended for long-term relief of functional dyspepsia because of the risk of side effects (eg, constipation) and the potential risk of becoming addicted.

Complementary and alternative medicine — Several complementary and alternative medicine approaches to functional dyspepsia have been described. Studies involving herbal and natural products, acupuncture, and homeopathy suggested a benefit from peppermint oil and STW5 (a European multi-herbal preparation that includes peppermint and caraway, also known as Iberogast). However, the quality of the evidence supporting these treatments is generally poor.

More research is needed before these approaches can be routinely recommended.

PROGNOSIS — Dyspepsia is typically a relapsing condition. In studies, 60 to 90 percent of people continue to have symptoms of varying degree two to three years after being diagnosed. However, most people feel better once their condition has been properly diagnosed, and many will respond to the treatments discussed above.

WHERE TO GET MORE INFORMATION — Your healthcare provider is the best source of information for questions and concerns related to your medical problem. Because no two patients are exactly alike and recommendations can vary from one person to another, it is important to seek guidance from a provider who is familiar with your individual situation.

This discussion will be updated as needed every four months on our web site (www.uptodate.com/patients). Additional topics as well as selected discussions written for healthcare professionals are also available for those who would like more detailed information.

source: uptodate.com

Saturday, July 12, 2008

points from a millionaire

Lucio Tan’s 8 secrets to a happy life

1. Work hard to achieve your dreams.
2. Take every opportunity, masama o mabuti, as an opportunity to learn and grow.
3. Lead a simple life. Do not live beyond your means.
4. Do away with the very bad Filipino attitude of living on credit, or spending today, earning money tomorrow.
5. Be matipid; teach the kids the value of saving money and using money wisely.
6. Make sure to pay your debts.
7. Don’t betray other people’s trust.
8. Take care of your parents, your other elders.

source:
Philippine Daily Inquirer
First Posted 01:11am (Mla time) 07/08/2008

Monday, June 23, 2008

HS survey =)

gusto ko lang i-share ito dito..

1. Anong section ka nung 4th year?
- hope

2. Sinong palagi mong kasama pag lunch?
- umuuwi ako (ata?)

3. Anong unang subject mo?
- physics ata un

4. Sinong paboritong teacher mo?
- sori to say, wala

5. Ilang subjects meron ka nun?
- 10+ ata

6. May mga nakaaway ka ba? Bakit?
- sad to say meron, pero hindi ko naman nakasagutan... bigla na lang kasing nagbago yung taong un... servicemate p namin... hanggang ngayon nga eh deadma sya... ewan ko b...

7. Kumusta naman ang JS nyo?
- sa quadrangle lang.. boring

8. Kung lalaki ka, may hindi ka ba naisayaw na gusto mong isayaw? Kung babae ka, may gusto ka bang magsayaw sayo na hindi ka isinayaw?
- wala naman

9. Sino yun?
- wala

10. Sino pinaka crush mo nung 4th year?
- classmate ko.. secret

11. Bakit mo sya naging crush?
- ganda ng kulay ng mata eh.. yun lang

12. My naging gf/bf ka ba?
- MU lang nung junior year

13. Most unforgettable moment nung 4th year?
- basta buong senior year ko... dami eh

14. Sino pinaka matalino sa classroom nyo?
- pantay-pantay ang lahat sa room namin

15. Sino pinakamaganda? Pinakagwapo?
- as i've said, pantay-pantay kami =D

16. Sinong teacher ang pinaka mahilig magbigay ng homework?
- yung tamad pumasok sa kanila.. si bro. ador ata

17. Sino naman ang pinaka masipag magturo?
- si ms. allora

18. Eh pinakatamad magturo?
- yun nga ung nilagay ko sa #16

19. Madami ka bang kakilala?
- oo naman

20. Sikat ba ang school nyo?
- hindi ah...

21. Sinong valedictorian nyo?
- si sheryll nuque

22. Deserving ba sya?
- oo namn siguro... hindi ko naman kc classmate eh

23. Sino naman ang salutatorian?
- si mylene remolacio ata

24. May mga nang-away ba sayo?
- yun ngang sagot ko sa #6

25. Kung ibabalik ang high school days, anong gusto mong baguhin?
- wala

26. Mga lagi mong kasama?
- si daphne dungca

27. Nasubukan mo na bang mag cutting noon?
- nope ata

28. Eh ma-guidance?
- lalong hindi

29. Kilala mo ba gumawa ng survey na to?
- nope

30. Anong gusto mong sabihin sa gumawa ng survey na to?
- sa susunod medyo habaan mo pa... bitin eh

Wednesday, May 28, 2008

break free

sick and tired?

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blogniinday.com
kwentongbarbero.com
greenpinoy.com
chiksilog.com

and many more... just check kwentongbarbero's recommended sites

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

would you dare say these?

just want to share this.. it's from a forwarded email... =p


75 THINGS YOU WISH YOU COULD SAY TO YOUR BOSS:

1. Ano!? Yan lang di niyo pa kayang gawin at iuutos niyo pa sa akin?
2. Hellooo! Gawin niyo na iyan no para naman huwag niyong makalimutan kung paano mag-isip.
3. Sir, makinig kaya kayo sa akin!? Pwede?
4. Puwede ba, busy ako? Mamaya na po yan.
5. Gumawa kayo ng sarili niyong presentation!
6. If challenges are more important than financial rewards, then why don't you just trade in your salary for my challenges?
7. Pwede pong paki-decide kung alin sa 10 inutos niyo sakin ngayon ang talagang urgent?
8. Absent po ako today. Wala lang, ayaw ko po kayong makita eh...
9. Pwede bang mag-all expense paid na vacation? Sige na naman, pagod na pagod na po ako eh.
10. Sir, bili niy o naman akong yosi. Sige na! Sa inyo na lang po yung sukli.
11. Uwi na po ako ha. Bahala na kayo dito sa opis..
12. Sir, pwede po bang taasan ang sweldo ko? Ang hirap kasi ng trabaho ko eh, ang pakisamahan kayo!
13. Mag-reduce naman po kayo! Mukha na kayong balyena eh.
14. Bakit po pag kami walang ginagawa pinapagalitan niyo kami? Pero bakit pag kayo ok lang?
15. Akala niyo ba magaling kayo? Wala lang silang mapiling iba kaya kayo nilagay diyan sa pwestong yan!
16. Ma'am, ang bait niyo po talaga. Sana kunin na kayo ni Lord.
17. And it is with utmost sincerity that I wish you the best of luck spending the rest of your afterlife rotting in hell at Satan's side where you belong.
18. Kung totoong nag-client call kayo patingin ng service report niyo!
19. Sagutin niyo naman yung telepono. A little exercise won't hurt.
20. Sige, gagawin ko po ito. Pero pagtimpla niyo ko ng kape.
21. Shut up when I'm talking to you!
22. Kayo itong may pa-kotse tapos ako uutusan niyo pumunta sa meeting? Ano kayo, hilo!??
23. Ano?!! Di niyo alam mag-print? Sayang ang laptop niyo ma'am.
24. Sir aminin niyo na po, nagpapa-cute lang kayo sa client. Kunyari pa kayo na binebentahan niyo siya.
25. Ang ganda ng resulta ng pagkaka-plastic surgery niyo, banat na banat! Lalo tuloy kayo pinagtatawanan eh.
26. If you really think it's that important, di kayo gumawa.
27. Sir, palit tayong sweldo!
28. Ang sarap po siguro ng trabaho niyo no? Biro niyo utos lang kayo ng utos samin. Ang laki pa ng sweldo!
29. Gusto niyo mag-trabaho naman for a change?
30. Do my work over the weekend?!?! At baket!? Sino kayo para utusan ako?
31. Ngayon na due ito? Eh di kayo gumawa!
32. Can't you see I'm goddamn busy?
33. If you need me, bukas na lang. May date po ako ngayon eh.
34. Asus!! Mage-edit lang hindi pa kaya! Kayo na lang ang mag-edit para hindi sayang sa oras.
35. Sir, tinatamad po akong pumasok ngayon e. Sa bahay na lang po ako mag-iinternet at mage-games, ala pang gastos.
36. Huli kayo! Nanonood din pala kayo ng VCD ha!
37. Sir, lahat po ng kelangan niyo nandyan na. Kelangan niyo lang po tingnan mabuti!
38. Tsk tsk tsk, yan na nga ba sinasabi ko e. Ayaw niyo kasi makinig sakin.
39. Pwede bang sakin na lang position niyo?
40. Nagtataka talaga ako kung bakit napunta kayo sa puwestong yan.
41. Hay naku, sa dinami-dami naman ng pwedeng maging boss, bakit kayo pa ang napunta sakin!
42. Basahin niyo muna ang lahat ng email messa ges niyo bago niyo sabihin na hindi ko pa nagagawa yung pinagawa niyo.
43. Magre-resign na po ako. Hindi ko na po talaga kayo kayang tiisin eh.
44. Hindi po Inday ang pangalan ko, kaya wag po ninyo akong utusan.
45. Hindi po bottomless pit ang MS Outlook Inbox mo. Talagang titirik ang PC niyo kung hindi kayo magde-delete ng email!
46. Kabit nyo po ba yung prinomote mo?
47. Aah, sir, crush niyo ba ko? Yung seryoso? Lagi niyo na lang po kasi akong inuutusan eh.
48. Why do you keep on doing this to me? Do you feel threatened by my genius?
49. Boss, VCD o, bold! (Greenhills Virramall style)
50. Daddy, Monday ngayon. Yung baon ko!?
51. Bukas ko na lang po gagawin yung pinagagawa niyo ha? Maglalaro pa ko ng Counter Strike eh.
52. Pwede ba tigilan niyo ko?
53. Kasama ba sa job description ko to?
54. If I do what you tell m e to, will this change the world?
55. I'm not sure if it's your good looks, your family connection or your charming disposition kaya ka andyan sa puwesto mo. But I'm definitely sure it has nothing to do with your intellect.
56. Okay lang umabsent kayo. It does not really matter. Mas maaga pa kaming makakapag-lunch.
57. Ang OA niyo naman. Kino-complicate niyo pa ang mga simpleng problema para lang magmukha kayong may alam.
58. You're just insecure. Palibhasa, deep down you know you don't deserve to be the boss of someone whose brilliance you can only dream of!
59. Sir naman, hindi naman po lahat ng tao kasing bobo niyo.
60. Karapatan ko nang umuwi pagpatak ng , 8 hours lang ang binabayaran sa akin eh! Karapatan ko ring mag-absent! At karapatan kong ring masulit ang 1 hour lunch break ko!
61. Ma'am huwag na po kayong mag-e nglish. Lalo lang pong nagiging obvious ang pagiging tanga niyo.
62. Sir ano ba!? Lagi na lang ba kayong magre-request ng blow job sakin!!?? (In a really loud voice)
63. Sa tono ng pananalita niyo parang naiintindihan ninyo ang pinag-uusapan namin ah.
64. Sana po pwede ko rin kayong i-evaluate no? Sigurado lagi kayong bagsak sakin.
65. Kung ano man po ang kasalanan ko ay kasalanan niyo rin. Boss ko kayo eh.
66. Maglinis naman po kayo ng table niyo.
67. Hoy! Ikaw, halika nga rito at tulungan mo ko!
68. Saang planeta po ba kayo nanggaling at hindi ninyo alam ito?
69. Ano naman ang mapapala ko kung gagawin ko to?
70. Inaantok ako. Tulog po muna ko ha?
71. Bakit ganyan po kayo magsalita? Napo-possess ba kayo ng masamang ispirito?
72. Sir, umabsent naman po kayo paminsan-minsan. Masaya po kasi ang buong office pag wala kayo eh.
73. Huwag nga kayong makialam samin!
74. Kelan kaya kayo mapapalitan bilang boss namin?
75. Aha!!! Sir bakit kayo naglalaro ng games!? Bawal yan ah!

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

difference: DVD-R and DVD+R

The truth is that the two competing technologies use different formats. No single company "owns" DVD and both technologies have their "champions".

DVD-R/RW was developed by Pioneer. Based on CD-RW technology, it uses a similar pitch of the helix, mark length of the 'burn' for data, and rotation control. DVD-R/RW is supported by the DVD Forum, an industry-wide group of hardware and software developers, and computer peripheral manufacturers. The DVD-R format has been standardized in ECMA-279 by the Forum, but this is a private standard, not an 'industry' ISO standard like the CD-R/RW Red Book or Orange Book standard.

DVD+R/RW is also based on CD-RW technology. DVD+R/RW is supported by Sony, Philips, HP, Dell, Ricoh, Yamaha, and others, and has recently been endorsed by Microsoft. DVD+R/RW is not supported by the DVD Forum, but the Forum has no power to set industry standards, so it becomes a market-driven issue.

Technical Answer

DVD+R is a dvd disc that allows multiple layers for one disc where as dvd-r only allows one layer. They will not compete to become the de Facto standard, because they are both here to stay. Multi layer DVD+R can allow extra capacity per disc than DVD-R hence its high cost!

source: answerbag.com

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

kasal...sakal

A wedding anniversary is an anniversary of the date on which a wedding took place. Married persons who regard the day of their marriage as important may mark the occasion in some special way.

The 25th (silver) or 30th anniversaries are often marked within the immediate family, since they often coincide with the end of the child-rearing phase of family life.

Broader groups in society, especially the extended families (including any grandchildren), may help to celebrate later events, such as the 40th, 50th, and 60th anniversaries.

In the United Kingdom and Commonwealth countries, one can receive a message from Queen Elizabeth II for the 60th, 65th, and 70th wedding anniversaries, and any wedding anniversary after the 70th. This is done by applying to Buckingham Palace, or to the Governor-General's office in Commonwealth countries.

In Canada, one can receive a message from the Governor General beginning at the 50th wedding anniversary and every five years until the 60th, where then one can to petition Queen Elizabeth II as in other Commonwealth countries.

In the United States one can receive a greeting from the President for any wedding anniversary after the 50th.

In Australia, one can receive a letter from the Governor General and the present Prime Minister with congratulations on a 50th and subsequent wedding anniversaries; and also from the Federal Opposition Leader, local member of parliament both federal and state, and state Governor.

Roman Catholics can apply for a Papal Blessing through their local Diocese for wedding anniversaries of a special nature(25th, 50th, 60th, etc...).

Traditional gifts
Year British American Modern
1st Paper Paper Clocks
2nd Cotton Cotton China
3rd Leather Leather Crystal, Glass
4th Fruit, Flowers Linen, Silk Appliances
5th Wood Wood Silverware
6th Sugar Iron Wood
7th Wool, Copper Wool, Copper Desk sets
8th Bronze, Pottery Bronze Linens, Lace
9th Pottery, Willow Pottery Leather
10th Tin Tin, Aluminum Diamond
11th Steel Steel Fashion jewelry
12th Silk, Linen Silk Pearls, Colored gems
13th Lace Lace Textiles, Furs
14th Ivory Ivory Gold jewelry
15th Crystal Crystal Watches
16th Tungsten
Silver holloware
17th Turquoise
Furniture
18th Bismuth Bismuth Porcelain
19th

Bronze
20th China China Platinum
25th Silver Silver Sterling silver
30th Pearl Pearl Diamond
35th Coral Coral, Jade Jade
40th Ruby Ruby Ruby
45th Sapphire Sapphire Sapphire
50th Gold Gold Gold
55th Emerald Emerald Emerald
60th Diamond Diamond Diamond
65th Star Sapphire Star Sapphire Star Sapphire
70th Platinum Platinum
75th Diamond Diamond Diamond
80th Oak Oak Diamond, Pearl
90th Granite Granite Diamond, Emerald


source: wikipedia.org