remember this

always remember 2 things in life..

don't make any decisions when you are angry.


and


don't make any promises when you are happy.

love..

love saving tips (?):

1. during an argument, keep to one topic and don't bring up past grievances
2. don't speculate motives or analyze character
3. instead of attacking negative behavior, ask for positive changes. be specific
4. respond directly to criticism without making counter charges. avoid rebuttal. listen
5. don't battle in public
6. never hit each other
7. don't walk out in the middle of a fight
8. never suggest ending the relationship

can this really save a relationship? hhmm...

quandary

i think... tama naman siguro naging desisyon ko na alagaan ang anak ko... kahit tumataba ako (tabain talaga ang lola eh! huhuhu). kasi for me, i think, it's time for my parents to enjoy naman... kung gusto pa rin ba nilang magwork or just to enjoy. though there are times na nahihingan ko sila ng datung kapag nasho-short kami. *wink*

sabi nga ng mga tao sa paligid ko magwork na raw ako... oo, gusto ko... syempre gusto kong tulungan ang asawa ko... pero wala akong mapag-iiwanan ng anak ko... yung marunong. may katulong kami pero hindi nya kayang mag"multi-tasking," mabagal pang kumilos... buti sana kung ganun-ganun lang din magpalit at maghanap ng katulong. kung magdadagdag naman ako ng yaya lang, grabe, sweldo ko pang sahod din. if i could only find a part time job or kung san pwede ako maki-sosho. and iba rin kasi kung nararanasan mong mag-alaga first hand... nakikilala mo ang anak mo at iba ang feeling... though minsan nabo-bore ako. magiging busy ako siguro kapag nag-aaral na ineng ko.

i want to help my hubby with our financial situation and i want to personally take care our daughter... hhhmmm